Monday, September 20, 2010

Finding your true love - Step 3

If you have followed steps one and two you have prepared yourself for love and have begun to attract people to you and therefore are ready for the next step. Step 3 is -Don't compromise! Under no circumstances should you compromise on your values, wants and desires. You should always be the choser and never settle for less than you deserve. It is very important to understand that you cannot change anyone so asses your potential partner on how they are NOT how you think they should be. Also, don’t be afraid to say no to what you don’t want and take responsibility for getting what you do want. And finally, know when to "pull the plug" on the relationship that is going nowhere or as soon as a requirement is not met (a deal breaker or non-negotiable)and cut your losses. You may miss the person that God has in store for you by being with the wrong one.

1 comment:

  1. Pia - I wish that I read this a long time ago! This is great information. I love the statement "You should always be the choser and never settle for less than you deserve."

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